Aaron’s Story

For much of my early life, I existed in a world where I felt restless or like I didn’t fit in (sounds familiar?), without really knowing why. I didn’t even know there was a churning within. I felt different from most around me but couldn’t identify what the difference was. (Of course, people sensed I was different, and made sure they reminded me about it at every given chance!) I merely went from day to day with hardly any awareness. Inadvertently, yet subconsciously, I chose to numb that volcano of emotions, the churning I felt and the feeling of being a misfit.

People around me may have noticed. Most weren’t sure how to respond until I was urged to read a book by my subsequent therapist. Not a big reader of books, I bought it hesitantly, and the moment I read it, something within me shifted. I read the book from cover to cover that night, and it felt like I’d begun a new journey myself.
Let me start at the beginning and bring you up to speed on how I got to being where I am.

I was a sickly child, highly asthmatic and allergic; both conditions contributed to my becoming quite OCD. If that wasn’t enough, I found I was surrounded by certain friends and ‘loving’ relatives who bullied and teased me, calling me a host of derogatory ‘labels’. The divine must have thought to itself: what’s that one thing which will complete Aaron’s journey on earth? Ah, let’s add some sexual abuse to this already painful mix to make things really interesting. Ow, it’s complete!! Perfect, just perfect. (I’m sure you too will have an interesting mix of your own.)

I continued living this interesting roller coaster for a long time until one day I decided I was done with the ride. I just wanted to regurgitate it all out from my system. After a lot of searching, I finally found a reputed therapist in Dubai only to hear: “You are a very negative person, your case is too complicated, hence I will not be taking you on as my client.”

Those words felt like rock music to my ears (by the way, I don’t like rock music). Feeling desolate (relax, I’m still alive), I called a friend and wept bitterly. In retrospect, I realize how bad I must have sounded. His first assumption was that someone had passed away. After patiently listening to me, he said, “When one door closes, another opens.” I convinced myself to believe this adage. What choice did I have at the time?

Turns out my prayers were heard. I managed to find a good therapist in India this time. Her only condition before we met was: Read the book, ‘You Can Heal Your Life’ by Louise L. Hay. And boy, did it change my life! (A book/ movie which I strongly recommend to all my clients.)
I still remember my therapist in India telling me: “It’s not your fault, you are a soul who has lost his way and everyone deserves a second chance.” Those words went deep and became an eye opener. Everyone deserves a second chance, and so did I. There was hope for me.

I told my therapist to wait and watch how I transformed. And I sure did…it took me a few sessions to address all my issues, and I felt like a new person altogether. That brought in a lot of conviction that this modality works, and I decided to study and become a therapist myself.

After that day there was no looking back. I studied like crazy, empowered myself with new knowledge, and today I help clients from more than 11 countries around the world to understand their true potential and brilliance.

A fair bit of all I do is based on the foundation of my gift of intuition, which helps me to know about a person by just looking at their face and sensing their energy. For so long I had little idea of how I had managed to penetrate through and look past the happy faces that people have on display. (Infact, a psychic first brought it to my notice.) I’d inevitably wonder why I could tell that a seemingly fun-loving person was suffering within. I could gauge whether the person was facing financial issues, or going through a personal crisis, or even if it was a hardship they were in the midst of. All this without even knowing a single fact of their lives! I now know it’s a special ability, one I continue to use to transform my client from whatever the current situation and perceived limitation is.

I’m particularly fascinated by spaces – both homes and offices. I can enter and instantly get a sense of the people who occupy the space, and the events that occur there. Spaces continue to be something I’m passionate about. I’m frequently asked in a professional capacity, for my input on how to improve a space energetically so that all who occupy it, may be at their optimal. (So when are you inviting me over to your house?)

I have come a long way from that first time when I sought help to pull me out of the quicksand of issues I was in. There is a technique to it… google it if you are in doubt. Today life is wonderful and I love my life which comprises to a large extent in empowering people and reconnecting them to their own inner beauty and making sure that radiates outside. I see myself as a life enabler. I travel my less-trodden, crazy, happy life, share what I do and see the transformation in others. Nobody or nothing can bring me down, after all you see – I AM my own Universe..

Would like to acknowledge my best friend, Sharon Fernandes, who helped put together my life story. She has passed on to another realm. She’s my loving angel who manages to crack me up with her witty sense of humor every now and then.

My journey of healing and purpose has been accelerated by my therapist and spiritual teachers, who gave me hope during my dark hours. My family, and friends, who believed in me, and the many angels who walked into my life. Finally, my clients. You all are the reason for my being. Your stories of healing reinforce mine.